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Reinhold Niebuhr

                              

     God, give us grace to accept with serenity the things that cannot be changed, courage to change the things that should be changed, and the wisdom to distinguish the one from the other.

 

Heath was the perfect spot for Union Theological Seminary’s Professor of Practical Theology to summer with his family. Located deep in the mountains of northwest Massachusetts, the setting was idyllic and in 1943 about as far removed from the horrors of WW II as one could get. The Niebuhr’s attended the Heath Union Church and it was the custom for summering clergy to take turns in the pulpit. So it came to pass that on one sun-dappled Sunday morning, Reinhold Niebuhr preached a sermon that included what would come to be known as the Serenity Prayer. He’d written the prayer the night before and while Heath’s pastoral setting may have suggested serenity, it was the war that dominated his thoughts that evening.

Niebuhr had spent his entire career as a social activist. He’d faced down a resurgent Klan in the 1920’s, confronted Henry Ford about the soul-deadening nature of industrialization and become an ardent pacifist in response to the carnage of WW I. The rise of Nazism, however, caused a major shift in his thinking. With both friends and family increasingly threatened by Hitler’s regime, be became frustrated with organized religion’s unwillingness to confront the evil that was challenging free people everywhere. Moreover, he was alarmed that people of conscience, in general, were willing to accommodate German fascism and were, perhaps, even letting themselves be seduced by it. When war finally broke out, he was a vocal supporter. Now, in the stillness of Heath’s mountain setting, and without really trying, he found thirty-three words that encapsulated everything that he’d been thinking, writing and talking about for years. And though he never imagined it on that Sunday morning, he’d given expression to a belief that would inspire millions.

Despite its popularity, many people underestimate the degree of challenge contained in the prayer. That might be because the prayer has been inaccurately titled. Even a casual reading reveals that there’s nothing serene about the Serenity Prayer. Instead, it’s a bold call to action. The prayer asks for serenity, courage and wisdom to deal with change. In the prayer, however, serenity and wisdom are bookends to the real challenge—courage to change the things that should be changed. Note; Niebuhr calls us (individually and collectively) to change the things that should be changed. Life is filled with things that can be changed and the word “can” suggests that there is a likelihood of success. But changing the things that should be changed is much more difficult. For one thing, there’s the implicit understanding that you might not succeed. The prayer, then, is for the courage to persevere in the face of impossible odds for a just cause. Learning what should be changed is also a prerequisite for understanding what can’t be changed. One can only be serene with things that can’t be changed if those things are understood against the backdrop of essential change. When they aren’t, the serene acceptance of the status quo leads to a smug complacency, misguided sense of moral equivalency and spineless rationalization. Wisdom helps us sort it all out.

The Serenity Prayer challenges us to confront the malevolent forces in our world, our lives and our souls. And when we confront those forces we are called upon to act steadily—with perseverance and conviction. Today, ask yourself what should be changed and then, with serenity, courage and wisdom do something about it.

                                                                        —Ebert

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