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John Wayne

                  

     I won’t be mean, I won’t be small, and like an old friend, I won’t let them down.

 

John Wayne was talking about his fans. He was explaining that not every fan would like every picture, but he knew they’d keep coming back because of this simple promise. It was a promise that spanned 48 years of film-making. And during that time, he perfected the role of a self-assured, decisive hero to the point where the characters he played and the man he actually was merged seamlessly together. By the time he filmed his last picture, The Shootist, Wayne had become an American Institution.

This wasn’t bad for a kid from Winterset, Iowa. He was christened Marion Morrison, though he picked up the nickname, “Duke,” almost immediately. After his family moved to California, he attended USC on a football scholarship until an injury ended his collegiate career. He found work as a laborer, extra and bit player at Fox Studios where he received his first billing as Duke Morrison. In 1929 his friend and mentor, John Ford, cast him as the lead in a major production, The Big Trail. The studio execs weren’t pleased with his name and instead dubbed him, John Wayne. Unfortunately the movie bombed and Wayne spent most of the 30’s appearing in a series of low budget movies. At one point he even appeared as Singing Sandy and in doing so, was the first in a long line of singing cowboys. Wayne’s big break came in 1939 when Ford once again cast him as the lead in a major production—Stagecoach. The film was a hit and he was on his way to becoming the human face of the American spirit.

In a lot of ways, today’s workplace resembles the Wild West that Wayne dramatized. There are good guys and bad guyssheriffs and rustlers. There are folks with hearts of gold and darkly menacing types that keep us on edge. Romances and jealousies regularly flare up with white hot intensity. Projects move along with the precision of a cattle stampede or dry up like a watering hole in summer. Then, at the end of the day, as the sun settles beneath the horizon, we often end up feeling, “rode hard and put up wet.”

There is, however, a way to start taming the workplace. It’s the three-step plan provided to us by the Duke—don’t be mean, don’t be small and don’t let others down. Just think how different work—and for that matter, life in general—would be if everyone practiced these three simple rules. When you think about it, not being mean shouldn’t be all that difficult. Some folks, however, practice meanness like a blood sport. They seem to derive strange satisfaction from inflicting small “hurts” on those around them. When they’re called out, they claim the were only “joking,” and it’s part of their meanness to make it seem that you don’t have a sense of humor. Being small is a close cousin of the mean-spirited. It involves pettiness and taking major offense at minor infractions. People with small characters tend to have large egos. To them the world is a mirror reflecting only their needs wants and desires. Probably the saddest characters are those who don’t keep their word. They beg for your trust only to betray it. They crave intimacy and then violate it with impunity. They drip sincerity, but in reality don’t care at all. Taken together, their impact on the workplace is akin to the James Gang thundering toward a bank!

Maybe it’s best to state this positively: be nice, be magnanimous and treat everyone like a friend. It’s easy. Succeed and work will seem less like the OK corral and more like a serenade from Singing Sandy!

                                                                        —Ebert

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